She Just Wants the D
- Ulysses
- Oct 18, 2017
- 3 min read
In recent years, there seems to be a dramatic increase in the amount of “independent women” on the dating scene. Although we can’t attribute this to any one factor (rhymes with Keyonce) it’s clear that more and more females are choosing casual sex over long term commitments.
I’ve uncovered a number of articles (a few links at the bottom) from five years ago to present that support this argument. My personal (sexual) experiences have even increased since some women have decided they just want a round or two of stress relieving intimacy with no strings attached. Our usefulness to them extends about as far as we can. With so many in school or working or school AND working, the schedule doesn’t allow time to waste so it’s easier to have this type of relationship. Some even happily refer to each other as Fuck buddies or FWBs (Friends With Benefits).
I am an administrator of two Facebook groups that are 94%- 95% women between the ages of 25 – 54. They are from various ethnic backgrounds and 80% are single. There are over 900 women collectively. My short stories are sometimes (most of the time) erotic and sensual which sends women in a finger frenzy, so I usually have their full attention. I routinely ask my members questions that men have been dying to have answered for years. One of which applies directly to this article.
“There are many of you with busy schedules and broken hearts. At this particular point in your lives, would you rather have a boyfriend or friend with benefits?”
I posed the question twice and collected my data from the first 100 women who answered. Both times the majority (first time 76% and the second 71%) confirmed that right now the majority of women are content with just having a friend they can call for some quick servicing. Most members left comments that pointed to specific key factors as to why they came to that conclusion. The reasons varied from “Men don’t act right” to “I’m too busy for a relationship right now”. My personal study concluded what I had already guessed. Women don’t have time for the Bullshit.
Personally, I’m not mad at them. I have my selfish reasons for feeling that way, but I also have genuine concerns which give a cause to be alarmed. It may be easier for us to get back into the one spot we’ve longed for since birth, but at what cost? The slow deterioration of the dating and courting stage can lead to an even slower decline in the amount of people getting married. The importance of a strong (Keyword) family structure is already seemingly becoming something we witness only on television shows. Could this growing trend lead to a complete disdain for it altogether? An estimated 40-50% of marriages end in divorce. Maybe some are trying to skip the process altogether.
Whatever the ideology, the reality is that there is an uptick in females that only want the *ick and not the relationship. As appealing as it may sound it is truly something that we should consider seriously getting a handle on (fellas). If they only need us for sex soon they’ll have the most advanced toys and dolls available on the market. What happens when that particular “need” is met elsewhere. The thought may not be so appealing then.
She Only Wants Sex:
When Do Women Want Casual Sex:
I’m Only 23 and want a relationship with no strings:
The Science of Divorce
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